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Grief

posted by [personal profile] elanya at 07:10pm on 17/01/2017 under , ,
What do you do when you learn that someone who has been a close friend since High School has suddenly died? When you don't live anywhere close? When his name is still sitting there in the IRC channel where you hang out every day, and have for decades?

ETA (because I keep thinking it): I guess today was a day for endings, and ghosts, afterall.
Mood:: 'shattered' shattered
xpost: http://elanya.livejournal.com/1083414.html
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alexseanchai: Katsuki Yuuri wearing a blue jacket and his glasses and holding a poodle, in front of the asexual pride flag with a rainbow heart inset. (Default)

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posted by [personal profile] alexseanchai at 12:17am on 18/01/2017
May his memory be a blessing.
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elanya: Sumerian cuneiform 'Dingir' meaning divine being/sky/heaven (Default)

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posted by [personal profile] elanya at 01:11am on 18/01/2017
Thanks
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alatefeline: Painting of a cat asleep on a book. (Default)

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posted by [personal profile] alatefeline at 12:46am on 18/01/2017
Let yourself mourn.

Take care. Seek comfort. Stay safe.

Send flowers (or charitable donations).

Get in touch with other bereaved friends.

Fall apart. It's okay. You're allowed.

(I'm sorry...)
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elanya: Sumerian cuneiform 'Dingir' meaning divine being/sky/heaven (Default)

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posted by [personal profile] elanya at 01:11am on 18/01/2017
thanks
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mousme: A view of a woman's legs from behind, wearing knee-high rainbow socks. The rest of the picture is black and white. (Default)

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posted by [personal profile] mousme at 01:20am on 18/01/2017
*hugs*

I'm so sorry. I don't have better advice than what's already been given. Thinking of you.
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elanya: Sumerian cuneiform 'Dingir' meaning divine being/sky/heaven (Default)

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posted by [personal profile] elanya at 02:40am on 18/01/2017
Thanks
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posted by [personal profile] karanguni at 03:00am on 18/01/2017
Oh god /hugs tight
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elanya: Sumerian cuneiform 'Dingir' meaning divine being/sky/heaven (Default)

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posted by [personal profile] elanya at 03:06am on 18/01/2017
Thanks
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azurelunatic: Polished piece of rainbow fluorite (huggy rock)

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posted by [personal profile] azurelunatic at 05:59pm on 18/01/2017
I am so sorry, and it's probably going to hit you again when his name leaves the channel.
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