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Emily Nussbaum of New York magazine posted a really fascinating article about the internet generation gap - how young people today view the internet and its opportunities differently. It is really interesting to me as someone who has had a long 'net presence, and has a lot of close net contacts.

I have been thinking a lot about how the internet connects you more solidly to your past and past relationships. Without it, would I still be as close to everyone from Fredericton as I am now? Would I still be in touch with people like [livejournal.com profile] skjaere, or [livejournal.com profile] longrat, or have friended people from Sheffield that I barely knew during the year I lived there? How else would I keep in touch with [livejournal.com profile] tsiankiio, or any other of the ECU friends for who I caved and got a myspace account? How does the maintenance of those old relationships affect my ability to grow as a person, and to move on and forge new relationships? It is a difficult balance of time to spend time with both my 'online friends' versus my 'real life friends'...

I posted a picture of my boobs in here a week or so ago without a single thought to any possible negative consequences. What does that say about my conceptions of privacy, and so forth?

The article implies that people younger than myself care even less for the distinctions. While I am fairly careful about posting personal information in some contexts.... I don't really care, and I'm not really concerned. I am not afraid of being stalked or what have you despite the fact that I know people to whom it has happened! Then again, I'm not really afraid of being mugged when I am out walking alone at night either, so maybe I'm just not especially cautious to begin with ;P

Anyway, it was very thought provoking to me. I am fascinated by internet culture, and I think ti would be cool to see more anthropological/sociological studies into the phenomenon...
location: A&M - NAP Library
Mood:: 'contemplative' contemplative
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posted by [identity profile] skjaere.livejournal.com at 09:50pm on 15/03/2007
I know I probably wouldn't now be with my boy without the internet. But back before I was a net geek, I was an avid writer of long letters.
 
posted by [identity profile] elanya.livejournal.com at 09:55pm on 15/03/2007
*nod* the internet does really facilitate long disnatce interactions on all kinds of levels, especially today when you have a zillion choices for IM programs and conglomeration programs...

I used to write a lot of long letters too, especially when I'd go away for the summer to camps and such. I still like sending/recieving mail - I just don't seem to have the time. I probably spend it all procrastinating on the internet ;p
 
posted by [identity profile] sorceror.livejournal.com at 10:03pm on 15/03/2007
It wasn't a picture of your *naked* boobs, though, was it? I'm pretty sure I would have noticed. O_o

Personally I enjoy the meeting-new-people/keeping-in-touch aspect of the Net. Without it, we probably wouldn't be discussing this right now! However, I do try very hard not to post personal or possibly sensitive information. Not even in friends-locked posts. That's just common sense...
 
posted by [identity profile] elanya.livejournal.com at 11:52pm on 15/03/2007
No no, not naked.... mesh bra ;p
 
posted by [identity profile] vureoelt.livejournal.com at 12:17am on 20/03/2007
I had [livejournal.com profile] sorceror's reaction. But I can't say I even recall a picture of that, either.

Anyhow! I definitely think that the internet enables the maintenance of relationships that would have deteriorated without instantaneous communication. Not only that, but as a different medium, different from anything previous and yet bearing some odd similarities to some, it creates whole new mods of communication between people.
 
posted by [identity profile] chairman-matt.livejournal.com at 12:42am on 16/03/2007
sadly the internet is becoming a substitute social life while out in germania. i can keep in touch with people who are increasingly spread further afield and fill time outside of work. its not real people but it'll do for a while.
 
posted by [identity profile] taokodr.livejournal.com at 12:54am on 16/03/2007
It's funny, but I never feel weird/bad about anything I write on the internet. I think of my blog as "my mind's ramblings and you're free to enjoy them". But, I do get weirded out about personal info being passed around. I don't have a credit card. I don't like online purchasing unless I can prevent it from being linked to my bank account. As for walking around at night, well, I don't have a boob problem and I'm probably a bit more intimidating than you are (no offense), but I often find myself thinking about what I may do if x happens or if I was assaulted at location y. I go so far as to make sure that I can wield whatever I carry as a weapon if need be. (Ask me about pencils, pens, or newspapers sometime ;-))

Darned martial arts!

I also wonder sometimes if it's because I'm from a generation that remembers when the internet wasn't there. I'll have to read the article and see what I think.

For now, however, I have 80 email messages to read (seriously).

Peace!
GB!
 
posted by [identity profile] longrat.livejournal.com at 08:51am on 16/03/2007
you wouldn't be in touch with me cos I keep loosing your address - and there are things I MUST send you!!

PLEASE send me a nasty e-mail e dot a dot laycock
AT SHU dot AC dot UK

with your address so I can get off my tail and send you the stuff before you move again!

Please feel to berate my general crapness!

:)
 
posted by [identity profile] gnomentum.livejournal.com at 10:25am on 16/03/2007
It's true, I am in touch with quite a few people I probably wouldn't be if it weren't for the 'net. One of my oldest friends, I worked with for a few years but withiout email I never would have got to know him (he worked for the same company, but over in Africa, for most of the time I was there).

As for privacy - well, the internet's kind of anonymous, even when you know the people involved. It's a bit like the 'OK I want to tell you this but don't look at me because I'll get embarrassed' phenomenon. Far easier to open up online, I always find.

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