I'm the first to admit that I am not the most expressive of people When it comes to resolvable issues, I at least understand the value of talking - even if it may take me a while to get there. For the irresolvable ones, though, I really don't. It's never made me feel better to talk about things, at least not that I can remember at this particular moment.
I have, in fact, been accused of thinking/acting like a man because of this before. Hmmm... I also find it ironic that while recognizing that this is true for me, I am usually more than willing to listen to other, give them opportunities to vent when they need it. I like being able to do that for other people - it makes me feel like I'm a better friend when I can. I often wonder if the fact that I tend not to keeps people more distant from me.
I'm not looking for sympathy at all... it's not constructive ;) I'll take the hugs though :)
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I have, in fact, been accused of thinking/acting like a man because of this before. Hmmm... I also find it ironic that while recognizing that this is true for me, I am usually more than willing to listen to other, give them opportunities to vent when they need it. I like being able to do that for other people - it makes me feel like I'm a better friend when I can. I often wonder if the fact that I tend not to keeps people more distant from me.
I'm not looking for sympathy at all... it's not constructive ;) I'll take the hugs though :)